I find that I'm asking myself this very question, and there is no easy answer. Over my 49 years, I've endured loss. My brother was killed at 19 by a drunk driver, my dad was taken from us at 56 by a massive heart attack, the 27 year marriage I fought hard to save ended, jobs I loved ended, pets who will forever be in my heart crossed the Rainbow Bridge. My daughter had two miscarriages, and with that, two grandchildren I will never know. I lost my independence last year when I destroyed my knee and needed surgery, someone to drive me to my appointments, and significant help with daily living.
What do I want out of all I've endured? To be the best version of me I can be. True to myself, compassionate, and understanding of others as they navigate their own pain and struggle. A shoulder to lean on because I've been there, a way for others to learn to love the scars that show they've lived and were stronger than their storms.
This is what we all share - this journey through pain and bliss. This is the moment to looking clearly at who you are and what you want.....Great post Tyler....Mahalo.
I find that I'm asking myself this very question, and there is no easy answer. Over my 49 years, I've endured loss. My brother was killed at 19 by a drunk driver, my dad was taken from us at 56 by a massive heart attack, the 27 year marriage I fought hard to save ended, jobs I loved ended, pets who will forever be in my heart crossed the Rainbow Bridge. My daughter had two miscarriages, and with that, two grandchildren I will never know. I lost my independence last year when I destroyed my knee and needed surgery, someone to drive me to my appointments, and significant help with daily living.
What do I want out of all I've endured? To be the best version of me I can be. True to myself, compassionate, and understanding of others as they navigate their own pain and struggle. A shoulder to lean on because I've been there, a way for others to learn to love the scars that show they've lived and were stronger than their storms.
Thank you. Just. Thank you.
This is what we all share - this journey through pain and bliss. This is the moment to looking clearly at who you are and what you want.....Great post Tyler....Mahalo.